There are a lot of pretty and smart single ladies out there and you often wonder why they're not attached to anyone or why no guy wants to be with them.
Clearly some ladies are single because they choose to be.They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life.
Many ambitions and very successful women find it hard to marry.There's this notion that the more successful a woman is, the more threatening she is to man.The assumption from guys is that she will be disrespectful, arrogant and proud.
Let's take a look at the reasons why Nigerian ladies remain single.
1.Afraid Of Commitment
Nigerian Ladies are afraid of being committed to one person.Some still want to be able to hang out with different guys and not be questioed.For this reason, they chose to remain single.
2. Insecurity
Ladies have had bad experiences in the past and can't seem to move past it.Ladies feel all guys are the same and all they want from a lady is sex and they leave after getting it..
With the mind of that, the refuses to date any man that comes there way.
3. Trust Issues
Some ladies have been hurt badly in the past and they find it hard to trust any man.They would rather remain single than fall into the arms of another man who would deceive them with sweet talks that mean nothing.
Ladies, I want you to know that Guys are different.You just have to try it and see..Though, it's difficult to trust a guy nowadays buh you just have to put your trust in him and alway pray.
4. They Want To Remain Independent
Many ladies out there are not willing to give up their independence for anything.The ability to make their own decisions without having to consult a significant, the joy of doing whatever they like, how they like is one of the major perks of staying single.They value their independence and for that reason chose to remain single.
5. Afraid Of Seperation
Most marriages are crashing on a daily basis over flimsy excuses.Ladies would rather stay single than jump into marriage and be out in a couple of years..
Ladies, please know that it's how to plan your family that your family gonna results to..If you scheme it wisely and with patience, there won't be any form of seperation.
6. Waiting For Mr. Right
Ladies want to remain single until Mr. Right comes along.Some don't want to settle for the wrong guy just because they're feeling anxious about.I'm not saying it's bad to wait for Mr. Right.Buh, how can you find Mr. Right when you denied almost all guys in the world saying they don't worth your value..
7. Not Wanting To Settle For Less
There are many ladies out there who think too high of themselves.They see themselves as too posh or too rich to associate with certain kinds of people.They have a class and can't associate with anyone below that class.So most of the time they remain single waiting a man in their 'class' to come their way.
Ladies, you need to lower your standards.
8. Playing Hard To Get
Ladies overdo the 'playing hard to get' game.A guy could sometimes lose interest when the playing hard to get game becomes too much.
I'm not saying be easy and jump into the arms of every man that comes your way, buh at the same time, don't play too hard to get.Do not chase away a man of potential away that could be your future spouse with your games.
Clearly some ladies are single because they choose to be.They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life.
Many ambitions and very successful women find it hard to marry.There's this notion that the more successful a woman is, the more threatening she is to man.The assumption from guys is that she will be disrespectful, arrogant and proud.
Let's take a look at the reasons why Nigerian ladies remain single.
1.Afraid Of Commitment
Nigerian Ladies are afraid of being committed to one person.Some still want to be able to hang out with different guys and not be questioed.For this reason, they chose to remain single.
2. Insecurity
Ladies have had bad experiences in the past and can't seem to move past it.Ladies feel all guys are the same and all they want from a lady is sex and they leave after getting it..
With the mind of that, the refuses to date any man that comes there way.
3. Trust Issues
Some ladies have been hurt badly in the past and they find it hard to trust any man.They would rather remain single than fall into the arms of another man who would deceive them with sweet talks that mean nothing.
Ladies, I want you to know that Guys are different.You just have to try it and see..Though, it's difficult to trust a guy nowadays buh you just have to put your trust in him and alway pray.
4. They Want To Remain Independent
Many ladies out there are not willing to give up their independence for anything.The ability to make their own decisions without having to consult a significant, the joy of doing whatever they like, how they like is one of the major perks of staying single.They value their independence and for that reason chose to remain single.
5. Afraid Of Seperation
Most marriages are crashing on a daily basis over flimsy excuses.Ladies would rather stay single than jump into marriage and be out in a couple of years..
Ladies, please know that it's how to plan your family that your family gonna results to..If you scheme it wisely and with patience, there won't be any form of seperation.
6. Waiting For Mr. Right
Ladies want to remain single until Mr. Right comes along.Some don't want to settle for the wrong guy just because they're feeling anxious about.I'm not saying it's bad to wait for Mr. Right.Buh, how can you find Mr. Right when you denied almost all guys in the world saying they don't worth your value..
7. Not Wanting To Settle For Less
There are many ladies out there who think too high of themselves.They see themselves as too posh or too rich to associate with certain kinds of people.They have a class and can't associate with anyone below that class.So most of the time they remain single waiting a man in their 'class' to come their way.
Ladies, you need to lower your standards.
8. Playing Hard To Get
Ladies overdo the 'playing hard to get' game.A guy could sometimes lose interest when the playing hard to get game becomes too much.
I'm not saying be easy and jump into the arms of every man that comes your way, buh at the same time, don't play too hard to get.Do not chase away a man of potential away that could be your future spouse with your games.
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